How to get a girl in Goa

Get hooked in Goa

Well, before we began, let me rephrase the title for you. It simply means how to ask a girl out in Goa - for a date or to be your soulmate. I ain't here to be a pimp and that's DEFINITELY NOT why I wrote this post. I am here to tell you how to approach a girl or a woman and ask her out. Well, this can help if you're travelling alone and need some company.

Here we go! So, to all the single guys out there - especially in Goa - who want to get into a relationship as quickly as the time passes, I've got just the right dose of attitude, confidence, one-liners and socialising knowledge to get you through. This will get you the resilient and outgoing behaviour you need to talk to any girl you like..
Here's an example: What is the first think you feel is lacking (within you) when you see the girl of your dreams?

Money? Wrong!
Looks? Wrong again!!
It is apparently "CONFIDENCE"!! What do you reckon?

No matter how handsome or wealthy you are, you might be good in talking to others but the moment you get that feeling that she might be the one, your brain sends reflexes that inhibit you from approaching her. When you feel that she's the beautiful soulmate you were eagerly waiting for, deep down in your mind, you get the feeling that she's exceedingly out of your expectations.

 Even with the constant goading from your friends, you're still reluctant about approaching her and even chugging Mountain dew won't help you at it. You become nervous by her presence alone.

How do we get past this anxiousness and propose her? In simple terms, I would say grow a beard" but we all know it takes more courage than that. We've all been there! I know how hard it was to talk for a few minutes with a girl. I could text all day but when it came to speaking out your feelings, I would get choked.

But eventually, I got good at it with my very own secret formula! You read that right, I began to contemplate for hours together, browsing videos, blogs and study the methods of love as if it was some sort of a degree. My hard work paid off when I realised some key aspects which I'm about to share with you. Don't worry if you're nervous; just do as I say and the next thing you know, you will be walking hand in hand with her.

1. Like I said in the very beginning, the most fundamental aspect when you're trying to get somebody/something is confidence. Don't let your thoughts get the better of you. She may be better than you but that's the whole reason you want her, doofus! Who wants somebody that is incompetent and backward. A spouse is meant to make you the best version of yourself. Now, if he/she ain't better than you, she can never make you better. It's the laws of science. A utensil only gets hot when the heat gets transferred from the gas. That's the reason there are gurus in all the fields. 


2. The second most important thing is the goal. Where do you see yourselves in a year?  Do you see your future with him/her? Or its a no-strings game. If it's a one-night you looking for, then what can you possibly be afraid of? You will forget she even existed in your life within a week's time. Even if she rejects you, you will end up with the same future - one without her! There is nothing at stake. If you seek for a long term, then pay close attention to the rest of the details.


3. With the temporary attachments out of picture, the next most important feature is humour. A woman, or human species in general like humour. Tell me of one long lasting relationship which doesn't involve that! Humour increasing the bonding level in a relationship. No matter how dumb you are, there is always that one person who finds you really good and vice versa. This is true even with humour. Even if you're all Hitler, you will find a woman who is attracted towards you because she finds you funny, in a way which nobody else can understand. 


4. The last important feature is commitment. If you're true to somebody, they will eventually realize that you are an integral part of their life. By commitment, I mean making your presence felt. You're always helping and dedicating your precious time to make his/her life easier - through sarcasm when in distress, motivation when feeling low, reaching out when they're feeling lonely and so on.

With the skillsets in place, what you need now is to know what to speak or how to convince somebody, right? For that, it is always better to start off with the pick-up lines that are already winning the game. No wise person tries to do something on his/her own without getting their foot in the game. Ergo, you need to try these one-liners on first before being innovative and coming up with your own impromptu ones. Savvy? 

"Hello! Could you please tell me how will I get to know you better?" 

OR

"Hey! Did anybody else tell you before that you're very beautiful?!" 

OR

"Hey! May I know what will it take for us to become friends?"

Analyse them carefully! Do you notice anything in common? They all have some sort of humour in it, right? You're already halfway in being a confident person if you said this to her. Goals are abstract, so you can think about it before or after you know the person. Settling for somebody before knowing them can be perilous. 

Commitment comes at a later time when both have mutual understanding for each other. Humour is through and through. A joker is always considered as a confident guy because of his "ready to role" attitude despite the mockery. Just go for the moment. Be the joker; a half fool, because going completely retarded is never advised. 

Also, Check out: the best location to stay in Goa for maximum benefits